Ok, awesome. I've whitelisted you, so welcome.
You should spawn at the intro center. It should explain some of the things and rules on the server. If we can find sometime to meet on the server, I or maybe one of the other admins/players can also help you find a place to settle or show you around.
Also just so you know, this is not a pvp server, pvp is only allowed when players agree or when we plan battles in some of our battle regions.